Logical and intuitive. Scientific and spiritual. A lover of evidence who has always trusted a deeper knowing.
I have never fitted neatly anywhere.
It turned out to be the point.
Most people are asked to choose a side. My life has been the discovery that we don't have to.
Different is not the same as wrong
I didn't fit in, not at school and not in society. As a teenager, the Spiritist Church came closest. I didn't fit
there either, but it normalised what I was feeling and helped me understand why I was different. It also
opened me to the energetic side of life.
Understanding why you're different doesn't depend on belonging. Sometimes not fitting in is simply where
finding your own way begins.
Every answer leads to a better question
I'm curious by nature, and for more than thirty years I've followed that curiosity wherever it led: into the
body, into the mind, into the science of how the two connect, deep into the clinical, and back again. Each
gave me something real. None of them gave me everything.
One of the biggest shifts came when I understood my own nervous system. It was then that I realised how
often I'd been following my fears and calling it intuition.
You don't have to choose who you are
Today I sit at both ends of the spectrum: incredibly logical, a lover of science and my medics, and an
intuitive, with everything I've learned living somewhere in between. None of it is a qualification to me.
These are tools, and I move between them freely.
People come to me because I see things differently and don't follow the mainstream, and because what I
care about most is change: people growing, prospering and reaching their full potential.
Now
My home is 180 Thames, the new private members' club and luxury hotel, where I'm resident. It's where
my events, talks and teaching now live, and where the next chapter of this work is unfolding.